Ask yourself, “Is it more important that I hold and project lower energies to others, because they did something to me that I disliked (this is victim energy), or is it more important that I draw my energy back to myself and invest my energy into higher vibrations, a new way of responding, etc?” The former slows the energy down and keeps us stuck in a space of opposition. The latter opens the flow.
Holding your “perpetrator” accountable (in a position of they are wrong, I am right) because you disagree with their words or actions only creates alienation, resistance, more experiences like the one that is triggering you. Pull/draw your energy back to you and decide what you/your energy needs from the situation and be that. This is where your personal power lies – within you. Holding and projecting lower energy feels powerful, but this is ego and illusion. What you are really doing is handing your power over to your perpetrator. Your control lies in your freedom and ability to choose in every moment how you will respond, how you will feel, and how you will show up first for yourself, and then for others.
This is not an easy space to move into. It is much easier to blame and resist. To hold the position that others have to come to your way of thinking. To support your effort to be in the flow and “be the change we wish to see in the world,” I offer you two different oil combinations you may create to support your choice to be in flow with the Divine.
- Sandalwood, wild orange, and geranium
- Forgive, cypress, and copaiba